today i went into my husbands myspace i seen that he left an old female friend from highschool a comment (old friend nothing more) stating HUBBA HUBBA to a picture of and her girlfriends in a vegas picture. before this i found on his phone that he sent a co worker a text message stating "send me a naked pic of you" but he said he was only "kidding" then he text ANOTHER co-worker "you look freakin HOT on your myspace picture" i have told him many times that the way he talks to other girls/woman in this flirtatious way bothers me and hurts my feelings...so today when i brought up the HUBBA HUBBA comment and told him (again) im tired of his comments and it needs to stop he said i was over reacting....you tell me am i over reacting???
Am I over reacting??
Totally unacceptable! I've been through this. They don't understand. It may be friendly banter but it's not okay and you need to let him know it's not okay and mean it and set consequences for his actions. He needs to respect you and that definitely is not.
Am I over reacting??
You are not overeacting. Your husband does not seem invested in your marrage. He is acting like a single man. He needs to shape up.
Am I over reacting??
No mam, you are not over-reacting. You need to consider divorce, cause it will only get worse.
Am I over reacting??
How he speaks to other women is appalling. It is disrespectful to you, to the other women and to your marriage. No you are not over reacting. (unless you are screaming like a harpy then you would be over reacting) But just bringing the subject up and discussing it, no that is TOTALLY appropriate.
Am I over reacting??
keep digging....you will probably find out more
Am I over reacting??
what? NO WAY!! that is crossing the line big time.
sounds like a womanizer to me.
Am I over reacting??
No you are not. This is unacceptable in a marriage. I think its time you guys had a long talk before it gets worse. It may seem small, but it could get out of hand if you let it.
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