Opinions, please. Co-worker affair?

Have a friend asking what I think about her hubby having an affair. What do you think? Having trouble advising her.

*He worked with a girl years ago, then she moved. Position opened @ his new job %26amp; he made sure to hire her. She moved back for it.

*He has a myspace acct, wife found it via search. She asked if he had 1 since he'd not mentioned it, he said no A LOT. But she'd check it now and then, %26amp; eventually found that girl on his friends list (b4 wife was).

*Girl was going to miss work, and the husband emailed her with: "I'll miss IMing U all day"

*The co-worker posts strange, cryptic blogs on her myspace, using lots of "office lingo" when talking romance. Wife asked hubby about it; he "didn't know what" the co-worker was talking about. Next day, the blogs were gone.

*Wife saw the blogs gone, asked hubby if he told coworker, he said no.

*In coworker's house (few times,brief). Slipped %26amp; told on himself about it.

*Hub let coworker help plan their kid's bday party; asked 4 her help, wtf?

Opinions, please. Co-worker affair?

If it's not sexual yet...it will be. Doesn't sound like he's sees anything wrong with the way he's acting.

He probably won't until the wife, kids, and half his paycheck are gone in alimony and he is sitting in an empty house with nothing to do.

Opinions, please. Co-worker affair?

duh.................

Opinions, please. Co-worker affair?

divorce lawyer...yellow pages.

Opinions, please. Co-worker affair?

Yes he is having an affair, They will deny untill the end, but where there is smoke there is usually fire.

Opinions, please. Co-worker affair?

He has a sexcretary!

Hey, I'd do it too if the secretary also did her job!

Opinions, please. Co-worker affair?

Too many red flags. Especially about the myspace account. Why would he hide it if it wasn't something to have guilt trips about. Part of the fun of being on sites like myspace and facebook is to share them with a special someone.

"I'll miss IMing U all day" is a totally giveaway because if the messaging was work-related they would both be really bored from it and would want to minimize it - not have a major love fest with that.

Opinions, please. Co-worker affair?

he is having an emotional affair if not physical.

Opinions, please. Co-worker affair?

The answer is obvious, you can`t sugar coat the situation. It is what it is.

Opinions, please. Co-worker affair?

You can be a nice person and still have an affair. Hire a PI and get more proof

Opinions, please. Co-worker affair?

Keep your friends close and your enemies even closer. Think I'd make 'friends' with this gal right away; shower her with kindness. Seems your husband may have started out by wanting to hire her because of her professional abilities but I think she has more in mind. Get to know her real well; you'll find out the truth.