She is a bit ummm...easy.I had someone call and tell me that he was rubbing up against her butt at work,I don't believe it because the person that told me is someone who hates me.My point is,we'd already had problems about this girl,I don't trust her around him and he knows this.BUT,he let her give him a ride home from work the other night.He called me when he got home and told me that his boss(Jason)gave him a ride home,WHEN SHE HAD!Few days later he came clean,(I suspect because he was afraid I'd find out anyway,I know everyone he works with)said that he was sorry and told me all about it.I am really upset and my little worries have become big ones.She even told him to go look at her string bikini pictures(she has implants)on myspace.I have known her for years and she is supposed to be my friend.I love him and he wants to get married.But,now that he has lied to me like that,I can't believe anything that he says.What would YOU do? How can I trust him again and should I?
My boyfriend (we're engaged) secretely took a ride home from a female co-worker.?
You can't have a strong foundation for a relationship with lies. I don't think he is ready for a big commitment like marriage until he realizes that small lies matter, and if he can't be honest with you about something he is doing, he probably shouldn't be doing it.
My boyfriend (we're engaged) secretely took a ride home from a female co-worker.?
well he did come clean. But that does not mean that it should not come with repercutions. If you trust him less he brought that upon himself. I say kick her ***. and push back the wedding.
My boyfriend (we're engaged) secretely took a ride home from a female co-worker.?
He lied because he KNOWS you hate her. Duh. I suggest you worry more about this little tramp and less of his actions. He seems to be a guy who truly loves you but was just trying to spare your feelings.
Until you have solid evidence he's doing more with this chick, stop being paranoid.
My boyfriend (we're engaged) secretely took a ride home from a female co-worker.?
if he loves you and wants to marry you he wouldnt have lied and why is it a secret that ur engaged if he wants to marry you? have a talk with him. tell him that you dont like the fact that he lied to and tell him even though he came clean ask him why he lied to you about it and tell him that you dont trust him as much as u used to and that you want to work it out but that he has to show you that he can be trusted and that you will be watching him even after he gains your trust. that you dont want to get hurt and get into a marriage where he might cheat on you and lie to you about being with people
My boyfriend (we're engaged) secretely took a ride home from a female co-worker.?
thats not good that he had to lie, my x lied and then came clean all the time, i just got fed up with it and i didn't trust him for a while, then now were broken up because he let it get to him that i didn't trust him. if hes not a chronic lair then just try get past it but if it keeps happening, then i think you should do something to make him realize what he has, what hes not going to have if he keeps it up, and why he should tell the truth. good luck :)
My boyfriend (we're engaged) secretely took a ride home from a female co-worker.?
He lied because he knew you would be upset. He already sensed that you did not trust him even BEFORE this incident. He either will or will not be faithful to you in the long run, not because of this one woman but because of his character. He will face temptations for decades to come, so it is not about this one lady. It is about your relationship and whether you have mutual trust. So you have to judge whether you believe he is normally honest and whether this instance is one where he was trying to avoid a fight. He should not have done this, but it is a common fault...conflict avoidance.
My boyfriend (we're engaged) secretely took a ride home from a female co-worker.?
How many times are you going to ask this question???
My boyfriend (we're engaged) secretely took a ride home from a female co-worker.?
It was wrong of him to lie to you, but under the circumstances it sounds like he lied because he knew you didn't like her, not because he did (or has done) something with her. And knew it would have upset you to get a ride home from her. But he was honest with you eventually.
If you look into your heart, would the man you are going to be marrying really cheat on you? Even if she would ever make advances, do you think he would submit to them? Is he a better man than that? Ask yourself that.
A lot of time is wasted in relationships with mistrust. You two deserve to be happy together, so don't let the fear of another women making moves destroy what you have. Because if he loves you honestly, he won't comply with it any way.
Good luck!
My boyfriend (we're engaged) secretely took a ride home from a female co-worker.?
CHUCK THE BASTARD!!!! you are worth more than him hunni
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