At the time when we worked together I didn't think much of him. We worked in separate departments and I rarely talked to him. He seemed nice but there was no attraction and I didn't really get to know him. Recently I was going through my list of friends on myspace and decided to check out a friend/former co-worker's profile from the same employment as previously mentioned. I noticed the former co-worker that I rarely talked to was on my friend's top ten friends list. Curiosity got the better of me and I decided to check out his profile as well. I found that me and this former co-worker had a couple of things in common and this realization sparked an interest in him.
My problem is it's been almost a year since I worked with him and I doubt he remembers me ...or ever gave me much thought either. I did notice in his profile that it is stressed that he is single and really wants a girlfriend but who's to say he doesn't have someone already in mind?
What would you do in my place?
Suddenly interested in a former co-worker from a job I left almost a year ago?
First thing you have to do is make contact--start with a comment or leave a message on his page. Leave in your note or comment that you look forward to hearing back (don't worry...does not show desparation, just curiosity). It will spark his interest and then communication is open for business! I think you can take it from there. Oh, by the way, make your comment simple, kinda boring so that the "hope to hear from you soon" is the thing that stands out.
Suddenly interested in a former co-worker from a job I left almost a year ago?
some common interest isn't to me going to be enough to spark a potential relationship. You stated several times NO chemistry and that's something that is just a given...I'm not saying you to wouldn't fall in love,just sounds sorta boring :) Hell hit him up on my-space and say hey remember me....I never knew you loved ?????? I do too!! See what happens.
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