hv a co worker who's 16 y/o son is gettin serious wi/ a 15 y/o girl, who is bad bad news. Whn they chat online they say things like "we need 2 "nick" some more %26amp; make ^ for the 30 mins we lost." very inappropriate..Anyhow this little girl is such bad news, %26amp; she has even gone as far as claiming tht her step brother raped her, %26amp; now admits tht it was a lie..In the end it turned out that she liked her step bro and wanted him and his fiance 2 break up.. I feel bad for my co worker's son, cause he's an all around kid, but is beginning 2 chng his ways %26amp; it's been since he's gotten with this girl, %26amp; this is so hard on his mother,wht do u think? His mom has access 2 his Myspace which he is ok w/ but she jus found tht sum mysterious person tht calls himself bob posted a comment on her sons page askin him y wld he stay w/ his g/f after he finds out tht she wld lie about sumthing like tht... this "bob" person seems 2 hv great concern for the boy %26amp; seems 2 knows her also, ANY OPINIONS AT ALL?
HELP for my Co-worker..... Young son, younger girl who is BAD news!!?
It is too bad that we sometimes have to use coercion and mind control to keep our kids out of trouble and sometimes even that doesn't work. I hope the Mom and her son can have a talk about his motivation for liking this girl. Some boys like to fix broken dollies, perhaps it is the lure of the naughty girl, that can be very exciting for a young man who hasn't a full compliment of emotional maturity. If they have had a trusting relationship up to now and both understand what good limits and responsibility are Mom should be able to reinforce them and how much she respects and loves her son because he is trying to live up to those life lessons. If she comes down on him and starts with the "What has happened to you, you used to be such a good boy", stuff she will lose and so will he because this young lady is obviously desperate for attention and will do anything to get it. LOL
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