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My boyfriend, Chad, went oversea for his business trip for like 2 mos already. things got worse when he started to act very immature and became very controlling. he got upset when he found out about my co-worker who was interested in me, he got jealous over some of my blogging and myspace comments from my male friends (Just some friendly comments!). He sent his friend to spy on me while I was celebrating my friend閳ユ獨 birthday in a club. He called me up at least 5 times a day, basically asking where I was, what I was doing.

We had some big fights and yet I still wanted him cuz I loved him and guess I still do.

Lately, I got so tied up with my work. I閳ユ獫e been really busy and almost having no time to chat with him online, talking on the phone as much as we used to. I was so tired when I got home. I閳ユ獡 25 and I really want to make some great achievements in my career. I know I can do it but I just need to work harder on it.

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Move on with your life. You are young and career-driven. He sounds insecure - and it likely won't get better as you start advancing in your work.

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find a new guy

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only advice i got is follow your heart

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He sounds controlling, wait till he gets back if you are interested in him still. If not move on he sounds very insecure and very jealous....

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I think that you probably owe it to him to wait two weeks great one.

I'm not saying you have to, but two weeks isn't very long; unless you have already made a decision and are already acting on it!

Oh yeah, you probably are worth it to him, but he does seem a bit on the high maintenance side and for men, that probably doesn't bode well for a single woman with high ambitions.

Did I mention you can myspace me anytime?

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wait for him. I went through something like this and my wife was strong enough to hold us together. We will be married 27 years soon. At the time we were newlyweds.

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depends, do you want to wait for him? only u can determine if hes worth it to you... is he worth waiting for?

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You know in your heart that you love the guy,

but it seems you also want to do other things with him gone.

Why not go ahead and start dating others,

but not closing him out of your life,

then when he comes back, try again.

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Get on with YOUR Life and YOUR Career!!

You are worth much more than this!

Focus on things that make You Better!

And Not the things that drag you down!

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He sounds like he has issues, I would move on if it were me but all in all only you can make that choice.

-NmD!

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yah...wait and see what he has to say

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You must let your heart be your guide, talk to him face to face (you've invested this much time you might as well invest a couple more weeks) and see where things go from now.

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on behalf of everyone, I would like to say that we are glad this is the last time you ask this!

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Yes wait for him, see how it goes when he returns. If you don't you might very well regret it. Actually i really think you will regret it. wait until he gets home. at least you will know for sure with no regrets. good luck.

By the way, he is simply insecure because he is not with you. He wants to be with you and can't handle the thought of you being with someone else. I think he sounds sweet. If you want to find out your true feelings for him then wait. It is a short time to see how you both feel.

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well yeah , if u still luv him n if u wnna know wat he wants to say.

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If Love did Not exist, Jealousy would Not exist either.

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Yes If you love him and u know he loves you. The other thing, you need to make time for him even if its a morning kiss a lunch time message or call, he feels left out, and probably not really trusting. You need to let him still know that u care and your thinking of him

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If you've waited two months what will a couple more weeks hurt? If you ever loved him I would hope that you have enough respect for him left to at least discuss your relationship face to face.

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if he means anything to you, then yeah. but, if you could live without the obsessiveness, no. one of the main reasons guys get over protective is because they think you are doing something wrong. they think that way because either the have been hurt way too many times, or they are the guilty party,and blaming you makes you focus on yourself and blinds you from his wrong doings. this is kinda grade school, but maybe you should get a piece of paper and draw a line down the middle. one side being pro and one side being con. see how it balances out.

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Well listen everybody cheats, and I'm sure you cheated on your boyfriend while he was overseas. Young kids like us need sex, and depending on the circumstance, it can even be sexy, or erotic to cheat. You cheated, big deal. Everyone does. Your boyfriends intuition told him that you were cheating, cant get mad at him. If you didnt cheat, good job and congratulations on being faithful, that is an expression of positive energy, but it is also requires you to suppress your true feelings, which are constantly fluctuating and changing.

Look, this is mandatory relationship type stuff. If you dont want to be part of this routine, and if your the type of girl that doesnt like to be tied down, take some time off from relationships or something. Concentrate on your career or something. Just be more self-aware and pay attention to what is important for you. When you are satisfied with yourself, then you can work with others better.

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It sounds like the same old problems. most of what is wrong with u two is the long distance between you, too often, also if anyone should be worried i think it should be you worried, usually the one who accuses the other of cheating is the one cheating, they feel guilty and accuse the other...so until you can be together more often, or decide on an open relationship, then I think you will continue to have these problems...

by the way how have you been, havent seen you on here much lately, missed you....good to see your still working hard, wish your bf problems would go away....

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Find someone else, this guy might hurt you physically. Be carefull

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Yes, you should wait for him, so you could talk face to face with him. He's gone overseas for a long time and he more than likely misses you and is afraid that he will lose you. Especially with your co-worker's interest in you. He may think that you are stepping out on him with the comments that men leave on your myspace and blogging.

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Listen sweetheart when a man is away he always has thoughts of the other man. Make sure that if its real then prove it to him. I was in Iraq for a year and found out my wife was cheating. Don閳ユ獩 make the same mistake. Make that man feel loved no matter what. Just make sure your you mean it!!!!

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well i can see your a very beautifull woman and he knows most men think the same...he wants to protect his trophy....but you have to make a life for yourself cause some day youguys might break up ....i dont think he will give you money to live if its over will he .....so do your thing and if he doesnt like it well ....boo hoo for him your hot hes not ...you will find another guy for shure ...look at your face my god ....you could launch 1000 no no 1000 000 000 ships with that face come on wake up smell the coffee ...

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i think you should leave b4 he gets so controlling that hes violent

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I think you know exactly what and who you want.... if you just decide to go for it. But I think you already made the decision in your mind.

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LOL, in my honest opinion... NO

He's not for you... like I told you before... you probably are better with offensivetoall...

Close to where you live, he's funny, he ***** jewish... for pete sake... what more can you ask for?

You probably in love with your bf... because the sex is great... because I didn't really see any good quality in your bf...

Too bad good looking woman like you... seemed like to fall for losers all the time...

If you find those two are not good for you, you can always go out with me :P

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Do what is best for you to do at this time

you may need to focus on your career for awhile and he should understand that beside he is focusing more on his career as he does be away for a month or two.

I think you no what is best just make sure it is what you want personally i think you deserve better.

even try taking a break for awhile and see how things go but if you decide to do this stay strong and tell him you need your space

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sweetheart think about this seriously..you keepposting the same questions.. so you are obvioiusly so upset and so worked up over this... and you know he isnt good for you otherwise you wouldnt put it out there so much that he isnt you know everyone is going to tell you he isnt... youre a sweet gorgeous girl.. and you realli dont need that.. he doesnt deserve you at all! please do yourself a favor and leave him.. he isnt right for you or neone else it seems.... and to tell the truth a guy who is jealous is usually paraniod...he is probably married there or something... or has a girl there u dont know...and he loves it and he loves accusing youit makes him feel better about what he is doing there.. trust me ... better leave him now b4 u find out the hard way... good luck sweetie

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Come on girl! Anybody who reads questions and answers already knows that you're in love with that offensivetoall guy who answers all your questions. Stop being so stubborn and date him.

So the Big Baby Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior has written it.

So it shall be.