Found pix of wife on myspace - consider it cheating?

I just got married a couple weeks ago. I'm browsing around myspace and run into these pictures of my wife.

http://smg.photobucket.com/albums/v285/x...

http://smg.photobucket.com/albums/v285/x...

Apparently she had some "fun" with a co-worker while on a business trip in a hotel room. She admits she had been drinking a little but swears up and down she didn't cheat on me. (As in sex, I suppose) My trust in her after 2 years of dating has been solid. This question is for those that have been married for quite some time now. I love her but this behavior is unacceptable. Would you move on or do you take the word of your spouse and let time heal things? Have you been in this type of situation before? And Myspace is evil though I never thought this sort of thing would happen to me, thanks Tom!

Found pix of wife on myspace - consider it cheating?

I dont think u can trust her why did she lie? I would get a divorce gl2u

Found pix of wife on myspace - consider it cheating?

yeah i would call that cheating or at least not trusting her for a while.

Found pix of wife on myspace - consider it cheating?

Hey, that's my ex-husband in that pic!!!

Found pix of wife on myspace - consider it cheating?

This begs the question, why were you cruising on MySpace?

Found pix of wife on myspace - consider it cheating?

I think they seem a little too cozy...If you love her and trust her. Stick it out. Love and Trust are the most important things. The only major issue is if she goes on a business trip again are you going to feel comfortable that shes staying completely faithful?

Found pix of wife on myspace - consider it cheating?

I'm about to get married, so I can't answer for someone whose been married for awhile, but I would take this as a terrible sign. I can't believe that she didn't cheat based on the pictures and it doesn't sound like she respects you at all. I don't think I would stay. The beginning is supposed to be the easy part, right?

Found pix of wife on myspace - consider it cheating?

save those photos and take them to divorce court

Found pix of wife on myspace - consider it cheating?

OMG! THAT GUY LOOKS NASTY!!! And she was with him!!! Eeoww!!!

Found pix of wife on myspace - consider it cheating?

when did she do this? was it b4 u got married. was this coworker male or female. if it was a woman, don't panic. we need(as women) 2 b with other women and keep our girliness up 4 ourselves. if it was a man, u all should have a serious talk. u can get thru it, i've been thru way worse and after 10 yrs. we are still 2gether. are the pics still up. have her take them down. i agree about the evil myspace but i have a page so i can check up on my oldest. have u been 2 myspace? take a look and c. it depends on the person. i've had 5 people look at my profile in 4 mos. is this helping

Found pix of wife on myspace - consider it cheating?

Two questions

1. Why are you on My Space since you consider it so evil what are you looking for on there?

2. If she's cheating do you think she's stupid enough to post pictures of this nature on a public forum knowing anyone can access them including you but not limited to her employers?

Found pix of wife on myspace - consider it cheating?

OK LETS SAY SHE WAS HAVING A LITTLE FUN AND HERE WE GO AGAIN WITH THE I WAS DRUNK EXCUSE WHY THE HELL IS SHE PUTTING PICTURES OF HERSELF ON MYSPACE DOING THINGS LIKE THAT. I HATE THE WAY PEOPLE DON'T THINK ABOUT THE ONE THEY SAY THEY LOVE. WOULD THAT BOTHER HER IF YOU WERE WITH A CO-WORKER IN PICTURES ON MY-SPACE. SERIOUSLY CONSIDER THINGS BETWEEN THE 2 OF YOU NOW...MY HUBBY WOULD BE IN DEEP SH-T IF I CAUGHT PICS OF HIM AND CO-WORKER LIKE THAT. WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER 14 YEARS...

Found pix of wife on myspace - consider it cheating?

I have been married for four years, these pictures show no respect for your marriage..Both in the same room and bed, maybe she didn't cheat on you, but it's clear that she is VERY comfortable and enjoying this guys company..I would go to marriage counseling...I would never ever do this to my husband. Sorry:(

Found pix of wife on myspace - consider it cheating?

pictures are not cheating. you need to lighten up unless you are already looking for a way out of your marriage. She has apologized and this did happen before you were married so either forgive and FORGET or save time and heartache and get a divorce now. there are not middle ways here you love and trust her and want the marriage or you are petty and foolish and want to break it up over this. Chose

Found pix of wife on myspace - consider it cheating?

was this a long time ago? cause if it was you cant use it against her

Found pix of wife on myspace - consider it cheating?

okay wow !

cheating. . . don't even question it. No wife should be taking pics like that with a co-worker and being that close, ever! I would never do such a thing and I'm sure if you did the same she would probably leave you - so find yourself a woman who respects herself, her marriage and her husband's feelings.

let me tell you my story - I was with a man for 5 yrs, and I found things like this too, he constantly spent time with this "co-worker of his" and constantly told me that they were just friends, and etc, and would go out and hang out with her when I wasn't around, plenty of times I caught him lying to me when he said he was with his boys, he was actually hanging out with her, dinners etc. Then I find pictures of him and her on myspace like this - he was sitting down and she was practially on his lap both smiling etc - I flipped out, and he swore he would never do such a thing, and that it wasn't a big deal and they were just having some fun and it was only for a second that she was this close to him cuz they were taking pictures -bla bla, billions of excuses!! and he even swore he wouldn't talk to her anymore, and then what - little by little he went back to talk to her and hang out with her again until I took some action and flipped the fcuk on her then she stopped contact with him - which he was mad at me for - but whatever, there is just somethings that you can't take, and your heart can't take and won't approve of - stick with those feelings, if you feel something is wrong and if you are not comfortable with something -do something about it, take action - don't let it happen to you- I never did those sorts of things to him even though he put me through HELL because of this woman -and then once this woman situation was over - it moved on to other "co-workers" "friends".... some people are just like that, they just can't be happy with one person and need constant attention and you will never get them to quit - I believe your wife is this way, trust me there are woman out there who will never get close to another man but you - I really suggest you leave her, unless you want to be like me, believe her, and then only find out she's lying again, or doing the same stuff with another man.

Found pix of wife on myspace - consider it cheating?

What would your wife do if she found pictures of you on a myspace page, with a woman feeding you pizza and another picture of her tying you up??? Bet she would have kick your butt out before you could walk in the door.

Not a good thing, what she did, no way man. What would she do if she was really drunk????