Serious long term relationship - help needed?

Dont Be rude.

I met this guy online 2 years ago. He had a girlfriend but we started dating and stuff. A year later he left her for me. A year after that I moved into his house. Now it's been 2 1/2 years since we met. In the beginning he cheated on me alot. But he insists for 2007 he has been loyal. I have passwords to his emails, phone bills, bank account, etc. He lets me look in whenever I'd like to prove nothing shady is going on. He works nights in a warehouse and doesn't always get out at the same time. I know this is true. He offers to let me look at his paycheck to match the times and stuff to prove he always comes home on time. I have no reason to believe that he is cheating right now. The problem is he has female co workers who apparently sit with him at lunch. I always hear about who's trying to get with who and who's trying to cheat on their partner with this person. Recently 2 of the women tried adding my boyfriend on Myspace. I know its just myspace But he says...

Serious long term relationship - help needed?

This is a question about you and your feelings of trust and mistrust. Your boyfriend cheated on you at first but it sounds as though he has matured and has done everything he can to p[rove to you that he is loyal to you. You still distrust him.

It was other people adding him to their Myspace not the other way round.

You have been through a lot with this guy, presumably because you love him. It is worth giving the relationship a decent try especially as he is working at it too

If you really cannot find it in your heart to give him a last chance at being trusted when he has worked so hard to prove himself it would be kinder to let him go as you will never have a satisfactory relationship while you feel the need to check up on him all the time.

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Serious long term relationship - help needed?

have a good discussion with him and tell him your concerns especially relating to the past experience if you are still very serious on this relationship.. but relationship depends alot on trust.. Good luck

Serious long term relationship - help needed?

dump the jerk already, move on... their is zero trust

Serious long term relationship - help needed?

relationships dont work without trust.

sorry

Serious long term relationship - help needed?

Good Grief! Either you trust him or you don't. So you went behind another girl's back and got him and now you are afraid it might be done to you? HHmmmmm "what goes around comes around" how does it feel?

Serious long term relationship - help needed?

This must be very stressing for you coz you always have to be on the ball with him. Is it truly worth it? Imagine one day if you ever have kids and your in hospital for a week after having his baby, could you trust him to be faithful?Once you have ties, it will be alot harder to end it. If you can't trust him now, Wait 10 years when you have put on weight and there are spring chickens around.. Please think what's best for you in the long run.